What are the Five Keys of a Successful Life

 

A successful life is a dream of almost every man and woman who are living on the face of this earth.

 There is no need to learn how to become rich in order to achieve success. But if you want to realize your true success, then you must know what are the five keys of success. As I said before, if you want to become an international businessman or even a great lawyer then these five key might save your future life. Success is a “state of being happy” with oneself regardless of your financial situation. Success does not only mean making you wealthy, but also getting satisfied with yourself and getting yourself ready for something. You can always talk to somebody who is successful because you will surely find the right person. Success is the real thing you seek for in life. Nothing else could ever bring you peace like success can. Success can help you to be happier, satisfied and confident enough to move forward in whatever field of your career you choose. These days if you look around, there are many people who are doing excellent jobs with their hands and yet they don’t have “success”. Many times we lose time to do something and sometimes it takes years or sometimes just months or even weeks, to get “success”. That is why it is so very much important to have success in life and I would like to tell you the meaning of a successful life which is really something worth having. Let me take you back to 10,000's ago when everyone started thinking about survival and the way they could always stay at home. Now everybody has realized that survival begins from within and this means “we have to start looking for what we need to succeed”. When we look at the things we are born with, one of them is our ability to make money and that is how we earn our living. This is very good as our parents taught us how to survive and also teach us to earn for this purpose. It is hard to understand when we talk about survival but the main idea as I mentioned above about saving and earning of your own money is what makes us to survive. Our whole generation today is trying to follow those same ways as our grandparents did during the past century. To make your own money and sustain your own lifestyle.

Here are the five keys to success which will help your life go smoothly to your success. They are not easy to understand but are really worth following because the whole world today is going through tough situations and now more than ever before we have to keep moving forward. So here we go with these five keys...

               1) Self-discipline

Self disciplined people start by doing nothing, which means that you have to start by working on yourself. Take part in an activity where you get paid for it, for example teaching or running for public office. You have to put in hours without fail and then after that you know what are the mistakes you made, why you made them and what could have avoided such errors. Your mind should never stop watching the success and mistakes of others if it wants to do everything without mistakes and that is exactly what self-discipline does. Failure is okay when it happens but if you try you might find someone who can help you to avoid it. If you follow me and see what I said, then your success will start with knowing how to discipline yourself. And let me share you two tips which will help you in taking a step towards self-discipline. Learn self-discipline habits like cleaning your house, fixing your clothes, and so forth. Doing small tasks like brushing teeth, washing clothes and keeping an organized home. Know self-discipline people don't have excuses but they know when to ignore excuses and don't give into laziness and never stop work for vacations or weekend plans. You don't have to believe and pray that success comes easy to you, it does not come automatically. People are born with skills, talent and abilities which lead them to success but you have to work hard and push yourself to develop that talent, skill and abilities so you can take up the path like Leonardo Da Vinci and Steve Jobs did.

          2) Work on Yourself

We always hear this saying "Doing anything for anyone" but it is not right. Do what you love and, in this case, no matter you are working for whom, basically you are working for your own self. Some people spend their time with an aim of creating content or just simply writing, when I have a chance to read literature and of writing books. If you ask someone if he is a writer these questions won't go round as much as it usually does and in fact they are rarely asked. In this case, for instance, they are writing and reading for fun, while working on themselves to improve their knowledge. Whatever you do, you should not focus only on earning but rather learning to do this yourself. Every job requires a certain level of skill; the more knowledge you possess; the job would be easier. Learning of new things like “machine learning” and “cloud computing”, that will increase your expertise. Make yourself a priority over achieving something but never forget that we are humans and we can't always achieve what we want, easily. As long as I'm talking about professional life, then I'll let you know what to do to create your best possible outcome. Read books and master new skills then work hard to refine your skills. Have a strategy of how you will work on yourself and that is something which can only create success and that's what I've seen all through human history. Start off by doing something you really enjoy and then you have a basis of knowledge which will help you to do so many of the next ten things. For example, a student wants to study engineering. Each little bit of knowledge will help him a lot as he builds a strong foundation of knowledge into his skills. That's what you should be focusing on today regardless if people seem interested in your business story. “Don't give up”, “quit smoking” or “drinking alcohol” at home. First of all, you have to find some quality people around you at any cost. Because this is not what success is all about. Success can't exist on social network sites but you can create a strong relationship with another and build it for yourself. Remember to go out for quality relationships and support with giving positive feedback, help and understanding. Try to learn to do stuff that you enjoy doing and end up building it for yourself. Sometimes doing things you don't like or aren't comfortable doing can lead to failure but you can never give up until you find out what you like doing. This should be a daily routine to you. If you want to progress, then go out of your comfort zone and experiment. Even if the results are bad, they are going to teach you what you didn't know and those things are the main goal of success. Also, don't use excuses like you are tired from work. Everyone has experienced sleepless nights at some stage, whether we are aware of it or not it is normal to experience it at least once in a lifetime. Just be proud of yourself for getting knocked down more than once. If you don't learn from failures, then you cannot learn from success. Being self-conscious and knowing what not to do, learning to do things you love to do and overcoming fears and other obstacles is what you should do. Never be afraid of failing but remember this is your fault because sometimes you had to face them too. If you can do things you don't like, then continue to do it as you don't have to hide from them later. Always strive to learn even if it is impossible. Use the lessons learned to take care of your business, family, etc. Don't waste time watching sports, dating or politics until you're truly settled and well-rounded. This is a universal fact that one can achieve only what he thinks he can achieve and for what he is willing and desiring wholeheartedly. Things like becoming educated, learning how to travel, and the list goes on. So always use your brain to look for opportunities and learn new things in your field, be aware of things going on around you but remain humble enough to do all these things and be ready to learn from it. Always listen to what I've already told you and make changes on what I'm going to tell you but always learn to do things better by yourself or simply you yourself. Understand that “change is one of the biggest things you have to learn to grow into a successful person”.

                  3)   Be Positive

Positive thinking is a key which has no match for a happy and successful life. No matter what is happening in your life, always try to find positive side of every event and experience. For instance, you are riding a bike or driving a car, and you hit your bike or car with something on the road. Don’t start cursing yourself that you were not fully aware and focused that is why you have to face an accident. But rather you should encourage yourself by saying “accidents are a part of journey and thank God I am still alive”. Moreover, you can boost yourself up by saying that this accident could be a “saving incident” from a bigger and worse accident”.

This habit of seeing positive side of everything, saves you from being a person who is busy always claiming people and things and incidents. Being positive is a golden habit to move into society and to run a business and even for performing a job.

4) Don’t ever compare yourself with anyone else

Every person born with a unique personality and finger prints. This fact is really hard to believe that all people on this planet have a different finger print. How it is possible that millions of people are there in present age and they differ the design of the lines on their fingers pores? These finger prints are merely a pattern of lines located on a very small area yet there is a unique-ness among millions of people. This unbelievable fact teaches us loudly that we all are unique and different from each other in character and appearance. Do not ever compare yourself with anyone else even he is successful or more talented than you. Every person brings some talents within himself. Only find your own talent which is definitely lying within you. And success is always gained after understanding your talent. So if you are busy comparing yourself with other people, you will not find peace nor your own talent. Perhaps you could find success by comparing yourself with another person but that success will not give you satisfaction. And believe me, without satisfaction, success is merely a burden.

    5) Add work on daily basis

You must have heard “drop by drop, there is an ocean”. This is a true saying because "slow and steady wins the race. being slow is a negative trait but in this saying, slow means a consistent pace. if you will put a little work in a routine on daily basis, you will find that your work has progressed a lot within months. This habit also helps your focus on to your work and goal. If you are out of focus, you will never get the required confidence for achieving any goal. There is a saying "Rome was was not built overnight". It means the bigger is the goal, the more it requires time. So, be focus, patient and keep adding struggle on daily basis, and i assure you, one day you will reach your goal.